Hi! I've seen your comments around all over LJ, and OkCupid just spat your profile at me with a 98% match, so I figured it might be time to check out your blog. I know this post is ancient news, but here's another tale of blagojevich for you.
An ex of mine with whom I'd stayed friends called me once, saying he needed to talk to someone. A woman he knew had just sent him a text message informing him that she had breast cancer and asking him not to tell anyone, and he wanted to rant at me about the fact that she'd told him via a text. He felt that it was impersonal. Upon my suggestions that a) he should be focusing on her needs rather than his just then and b) he shouldn't be identifying her by name to me if she had asked him not to tell anyone, he blew up at me for being insensitive to his feelings.
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Date: 2009-07-01 05:06 (UTC)An ex of mine with whom I'd stayed friends called me once, saying he needed to talk to someone. A woman he knew had just sent him a text message informing him that she had breast cancer and asking him not to tell anyone, and he wanted to rant at me about the fact that she'd told him via a text. He felt that it was impersonal. Upon my suggestions that a) he should be focusing on her needs rather than his just then and b) he shouldn't be identifying her by name to me if she had asked him not to tell anyone, he blew up at me for being insensitive to his feelings.