Sep. 27th, 2026 23:03

Autumn, estrogen, vaxxx, projects

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It is suddenly Autumnal! The cats are snuggling, we have a big nor'easter happening, and there's a squirrel in the squirrel nesting box (probably hiding from the rain, rather than fully moving in). The times of looking out for "cool days" in the 70s are over, the times of looking out for "warm days" that crack 70 have begun.

The nationwide shortage of estrogen is finally hitting me; I should be on a new patch right now but CVS has taken 10 days so far to fill my prescription, rather than their usual one day. I am, to twist an old Zillian in-joke, uncomfortably unexcited by this, though nothing awful has happened yet.


  • On Tuesday I got triple-vaxxed (covid, flu and MMR) after which I was pretty damn sleepy. Early bedtime for a couple of nights turned into a long 4AM reading session after I'd gotten enough sleep, after which I reverted to form.

  • I finished my programming project, unsuccessfully -- I didn't find crossword entries of the type I was looking for -- but I did find pieces I can use in a different puzzle, and I seem to have nerd-sniped someone else, someone with far more sophisticated software, into doing what I had tried to. I also finished up a different grid, working with a goddamn legend who I still can't believe is willing to talk to me at all. As I start to do more random helping of others on the relevant Discord server, I have to wonder... am I starting to get good? Certainly I'm way more confident using the software. That new grid was built quickly by using two custom wordlists, one and then the other, and I'm the one who figured out how to quickly create the second.

  • Handstands feel different all the time now. Yesterday I used the trampoline to bounce up to canes again, and managed my goal-for-today of hold, come down and go back up to a second balance with just one rebound. And earlier in the week I finally experienced just letting my shoulders open, without a ton of effort or a giant mental argument, while I jumped over them. It felt easy and very strange. I also got my transverse abdominis sore; coincidence? Likely not?

  • I made some really awful uh, barley with beef in it. Ewwww. Turns out that does not taste like a soup, or even like good barley. I rescued it with the addition of an onion and some garlic fried up in bacon grease -- oh, and carrots, and throwing in some bacon bits too. And it became soup! Lesson learned.

  • Didn't see the squirrel-boyfriend much -- too much travel for a board meeting. We got a few snuggles last night. I managed to paint its toes a proper squirrely gold before it definitively fell asleep, and I'm pretty sure that was sympathy I saw in Perse's eyes as I headed for the bus. But things still feel good, and I understand about Big Jobs, even if mine was never quite that big.

  • The cottage is close to finishing up; should be done in October. I picked out bathroom stall pieces and tiles, etc, this week. And, just in case the cottage story wasn't tangled enough yet, it looks like we may be able to put Birdie in there for a couple of months as her semester winds up (!). Rent free because an ADU in that town isn't allowed to have short-term renters. It will be pretty funny if we house my egg before we house the squirrel mama, but also useful, because I would like someone chill to test-drive the renovations & raise any problems before we move in a fussy 76-year-old.



I'm still interested in doing some "zoomed-out" posts where I hold forth a little more on some topic. What would people be interested in hearing about? Ageing, crosswords, books/reading, retirement-from-tech-so-far, patchwork/found family, houses, circus?
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There are not many fandoms where I find English words I don't know in fanfic.

Thanks, valancysnaith and Xverse, for eschatological~

The word "eschatology" arises from the Ancient Greek term ἔσχατος (éschatos), meaning "last", and -logy, meaning "the study of", and first appeared in English around 1844. The Oxford English Dictionary defines eschatology as "the part of theology concerned with death, judgment, and the final destiny of the soul and of humankind". (wikipedia)
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1♥ There is an early nor'easter outside! What a fascinating weather event. The leaves have only just started changing color, and a system that typically arrives as a winter storm is blanketing the region. No snow, for which we are all grateful, just a lot of wind and rain.

It reminds me of my first marathon, also an out-of-season storm, although that nor'easter was late rather than early. Like today it was warm enough, but five hours in the rain is chilling no matter the temperature. I had gloves and it still got to the point where a volunteer had to peel a banana for me because my fingers were too cold to manage it. (They offered to get me more food and a blanket, but I said I was fine to keep going, so they sent me off with the promise of hot soup at the next support station. There was indeed hot soup, and it was amazing. Those volunteers were all heroes.)

2♥ I have not been tremendously productive on the creative front this week, and for this I entirely blame the large quantity of very high-quality Xverse fanfic filling the universe. Thank you authors for your energy and the love you share with us. Every time I return to this fandom I find so many new and welcoming worlds.

I did not finish my first story for [community profile] no_true_pair, but I am now two stories into a new character list. So combined that's like, two point five stories out of 28. Which is great! Two stories that didn't exist before! I'm gonna go write another one, maybe, because I will never stop having opinions about telepaths.

(Occasionally someone is right about extrasensory perception and I am very impressed, but I can't recommend this particular story because it starts with the author being spectacularly wrong about Nazis. I've become largely inured to English-speaking fans being wrong about Chinese-speaking fandoms, and I figure that's at least a little bit due to the language barrier making the cultural divide harder to cross. But I didn't think anyone could be wrong about Nazis. Don't kids watch The Sound of Music anymore?)

I'm also going to take more lego pictures, probably, even though I'm counting my [community profile] no_true_pair time toward [community profile] communal_creators, and as such I'm mostly caught up. But I started building a Chinese restaurant and I think it would be cute to have the Mo Dao Zu Shi minifigs watching it go up. (I have Xverse minifigs, but I just realized that they're more cerebral than spiritual. I'm not sure how that's relevant.)

3♥ I thought there were going to be, idk, seven things on this list, and now I'm all, "There should definitely be more than two, right?" So miscellaneous time notes for future me looking back through my journal*~
+The remaining pine tree in the rock garden out back was cut down this week.
+Told Dad about my name change; he was unexpectedly supportive.
+Finally got last year's new car inspected.
+Just got fooled by AI country music.

*I reread all 151 entries tagged "xverse" in my journal this week and they were by and large hilarious, including this gem from 2015:

no you can't play chess like that

HOW MANY PAWNS DO YOU HAVE


Ten years too early for Duolingo to have taught anyone on set what to do with the board, I guess. We learned chess growing up because they played it on Star Trek.

...Oh dear. I just went looking for a couple of the Star Trek/Xverse crossovers, and clearly I won't be writing any time soon.
Sep. 27th, 2026 14:41

Hanging On Some Addenda

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Some things left out of the post yesterday when I misclicked and lost a draft.

Recently, I saw a flyer for a neighborhood event, and instead of following my usual process for noting that down, I took a photo and told my phone, "Hey Google, add the event in this photo to my calendar", and that worked perfectly in a few seconds. I don't know if the notable thing there is even surprise that technology can put together all those pieces now or just that I'm such a late adopter. Is it obvious that this is how it works now?

On a related note, this is also worth a listen.

On an unrelated to the first thing but I guess tangentially related to the second thing note: I've been listening to a lot of music by Knower recently, especially "Time Traveler", "Inside Your Heart", and "Hanging On" (also this cover). I don't know what had that band cross into my attention again, but it really hooked me this time.

Sep. 26th, 2026 18:06

Dental Damage

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On Friday, my bite slipped somehow at lunch and came down hard on the fork, necessitating a hasty visit to the dentist. This was actually the second time this month, a few weeks ago one of my back teeth chipped for no apparent reason. So I have a follow-up visit (for that earlier injury, but I hope they can take care of everything) on Tuesday and then my regular cleaning scheduled for Thursday. Which is a lot of time to spend at the dentist. Erica has an appointment at the orthodontist on Tuesday, too, as her retainer stopped being an acceptable fit.

Friday afternoon, went with the whole family for seasonal vaccines, which was, like a blood-draw earlier this year, a struggle for Erica. And thus extremely draining for the both of us. At least she did get it together and get through it eventually, I'm proud of her, but I wish it wasn't such an ordeal.

Today is a very rainy day, though at least not as rainy and windy as originally forecast. And we're all feeling under the weather.

Erica's been very into all things Pokemon lately, and she's making a lot of crafts and jewelry with perler beads. She also finger-knit a hat with some chunky yarn she got from the second-hand craft-supplies store nearby.

I've been playing Metroid Prime 4: Beyond, which I am late to playing due to its mixed reviews. I'm having fun with it, but the mixed reviews are deserved. It has some real issues with level design that it papers over in ways that make it even more clunky (e.g. NPCs who are yellow-paint incarnate, there to direct the player in ways that should follow smoothly from context, but don't, or to give Samus assistance that seems like it should be totally unnecessary just to give the player extra reason to backtrack).
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Yay I have completed the name change basic identity quadrafecta!

Marci and I took a day off to drive to the town where I was born and visit the Town Clerk's office, where I was able to get an updated birth certificate while I waited. There was a typewriter involved. My mother and father are now listed as "Parent A" and "Parent B," both with maiden names.

Next on my list is banks, which I started visiting this week. They have all been helpful to the point of being entertaining. One of them was celebrating Dolly Parton day ("nine two five") by having everyone change their name badges to "Jolene." Everyone. It was great.

Unrelatedly, a fellow lobby guest told me, "You have a cheerful soul. You're a blessing to this world."

So are you, dear. So are you.
Sep. 25th, 2026 09:27

Sukkot is here

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And it's officially fall. October (coming in a week) is my favorite month. "Must be the born in Oct thing," as [personal profile] ablock used to say.

I made it through the High Holidays, and got to lead the Shacharit service for Rosh Hashanah Day 1 and Yom Kippur. They livestream the services now, so you can hear my YK Shacharit here. As a young adult I always used to say that YK was my favorite holiday, as levitical as it is. As a parent I've leaned much more toward Rosh Hashanah because YK is just too much of an ordeal for less payoff, but this year was the first year in a while that I caught a glimpse of that feeling. I miss Tremont St the most at Ne'ilah, but this year was good.

Speaking of Tremont St., in a week I am flying Ms A to Boston to experience Simchat Torah on Tremont St. We're coming in Thurs night 10/1 and returning Mon morning 10/5, which means we have Friday daytime 10/2 to entertain ourselves while [personal profile] ablock and family are working/schooling. I am thinking of taking her up to Salem for a few hours, possibly on the commuter rail. Anyone interested in joining us? Recommendations?

And tonight is Sukkot and Mr Y has again very sweetly built the whole sukkah with minimal assistance or input from me, which is one of the nicest things he does for me all year. :-)

Chag sameach, everyone.
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Sep. 24th, 2026 14:46

Literary History

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As a child, I owned a book of poetry by Mary Mapes Dodge. This morning a few lines from one of her poems were running through my head and I wanted to reconstruct the rest of the poem, so of course I (successfully) Googled. I was delighted to learn in the process that Mary Mapes Dodge is also the author of a poem (not, as far as I can remember, included in my childhood book", called "If Pussy Were Made of Leather".

Perhaps we should have a contest for the best contemporary poem using the same title.
Sep. 23rd, 2026 23:11

thumbs of doom

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Occasional superpower post: I have short, wide, and unusually strong thumbs. They resemble some photos of brachydactyly type D (which is just a morphological categorization) but unlike most similar-looking thumbs both phalanges are wider and shorter, not just one of them. Also unusually they are X-linked recessive; my maternal grandfather had them and no one else in the family does.

Some of the many causes of what I've heard called "Murderer's Thumbs" have other effects but I don't have any of those other than the strength, which is pretty remarkable. I change bicycle tires with my bare hands instead of needing tire irons for either mounting or unmounting. I peel garlic by pressing on the surface of the clove; this expresses some oil, loosening the skin, which falls away. I can easily open jars that others can't, and set bearings without needing an arbor press. I once decided to see how much pressure I could hold back with my thumb on the head of a bicycle pump and the answer was as much as the pump could deliver, about 160 PSI. That was a mistake; the mass of my thumb cooled the compressed air back down to room temperature and when I let go the expansion from 11 atmospheres to 1 lowered the air temp enough to condense the nitrogen onto my thumb and I got a nasty cold burn.

Short thumbs don't prevent me from having an octave plus one and a half reach on a piano keyboard, which is plenty for almost any composition. So I can't blame them for the fact that I didn't stick with that instrument back in high school.
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Oh right study time! I did basically no studying last week, so. Here are some numbers anyway.

♥ August | [activity] September weekly numbers (hours)
50 | listening 17 → 23 → 39
4 | reading 1 → 2 → 2
1 | speaking 1 → 3 → 4
9 | videos 4 → 9 → 10
1 | writing 0 → 1 → 1

I guess they did tick up slightly from the week before. (This is why I track, because when I sulk that I did nothing the numbers are like, that is objectively a lie.)

Insight Timer reminds me consistency beats perfection; I would argue that I have neither but I did discover this month that I have finally achieved chapter book reading level and this is very exciting.
Sep. 21st, 2026 23:37

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Tonight I stood before the Ark, and my heart was beating so very fast. Perhaps I shouldn't have backed away as quickly as I did; I knew there were others waiting.
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1) Daphne still has both eyes! Yay! Antihistamine eyedrops cleared them right up, but she reminds me that nature is hazardous and should be approached with extreme caution. Preferably from a safe height, such as being carried.

2) If you ever need to change your name in the US, I suggest updating your passport first. The only documentation I needed was my previous passport and certified evidence of name change. It was the easiest and fastest photo ID to replace, and having a valid photo ID makes all most things possible.

On the plus side, the DMV charged me exactly no money to update my license and registration, and their office was 1000% more chill than the Social Security office, which was so tense I was worried they were being robbed the whole time I was there. (Why would someone rob a Social Security office? I don't know, but there were no less than four signs on the front door warning visitors it's a federal offense punishable by 25 years in prison.)

3) A short list of unrelated humorous things:
+ The official Canadian measurement flowchart, image by pac0master
+ How the European Union Works, video from JimmyReesComedy
+ We Are Tired #genx, video from pink_chihuahua1

ETA: It looks like "We Are Tired" has been made private, unfortunately. It was another funny tirade in response to "can the 40- to 60-year-olds please take over" on tiktok.

Also for reasons that don't need exploring at this juncture (it's because I was re-reading Through the Barricades, which I sometimes think is the best thing I've ever written and is probably the series I reread the most) I watched a summary of all the X-Men movies today, and the narrator led with, "Everyone can agree on the best X-Men movie," and I was like, "It's going to be United, isn't it, and I disagree."

But no, of course it was Days of Future Past, which actually is the best X-Men movie, so here's a great music video tribute by centperk on youtube: X-Men: Days of Future Past - World on Fire. (If you're not familiar with the fandom or the movie, please note the premise of this timeline is a future so terrible they have to send someone back in time to change it, and the music video reflects that.)

"...everybody has a war
it's not about oil and it's not about guns
it's not about rainbows, it's about daughters and sons
if you believe in tomorrow then I have taught you well
cause if you don't believe in yourself, life's a living hell"

--sonia of disappear fear
"me, too"
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The whole world is details. Last Monday I did a serious push to get through all my starred emails (and monthly finance review), and every day since then I've tried to knock out a couple of super annoying or delayed tasks. I definitely peaked in this realm by filling out the paperwork necessary to work the polls in my city and physically taking them to City Hall, but damn it I almost called the IRS today too. Almost. It's gonna happen.


  • Fixed a leak for my Porter Square tenants, and one of them fed me a cinnamon roll. So nice. I was hopeful about not getting charged for that, but they did charge me, and that's reasonable since I may have in fact broken a pipe.

  • One of Birdie's dads came to visit, and I had dinner with him twice -- once with the bug and once with Birdie. Managed to give him back some body wash he left with me on his last visit, which amused me. He doesn't realize that his visits stress Birdie out... sigh. They do though, and her cat got sick at the same time, and she's losing her roommate soon, so overall she's got some decisions to make.

  • Bug and I spent several hours down in the basement, clearing off and removing an old 4'x4' shelving unit that always was a lousy shape for storage. We've replaced it with two 2'x4' wire racks, and our little storage room feels bigger now! There was a lot of spiderweb removal (and, despite our best efforts, I still put my hand in a small one and yelped).

  • We also celebrated our anniversary with a bounce juggling workshop -- I successfully learned a 3-ball bounce cascade -- and a really nice dinner at Moëca. My second time there and it was just as good as the first time, maybe better.

  • I've continued to feel more solidity and steadiness in my handstands. This is primarily because of Tiny Person, and what Tiny Person teaches me is to do less, move less. Feel what it's like to NOT move, which is far more of a distinct feeling for me than slight movement is. Oh, and also strange things: like opening the shoulder by hinging from around the base of the shoulder blade, not by strain at the gleno-humeral joint. Sometimes it all seems to be coming together. I even, last week with Pokemon, managed to feel like a tuck-up and a straddle-up were the same basic going-up motion -- and I've sure been waiting to feel that for fifteen years.

  • Social: foreshortened dates with the squirrel, all on unusual days, because CEO jobs aren't easy and he keeps having to travel. Lunch with ex-Zillianaires.

  • More India planning, more Spain planning. It begins to seem like the squirrel mama will be moving into the cottage earlier than we thought -- maybe February! -- which actually lowers the time pressure on the renovation, since we won't be trying to slip a 6-month lease in between the reno and her move-in. I should still check in with the contractor about schedule, though. Tomorrow.



It's getting dark earlier, and it's getting colder. Fall is here. I've started doing some programming toward a crossword I've had in my head for a long time, and the progress is slow/incremental but enjoyable.
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I'm late (as I often am,) but the days between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur are over soon.
As I quote in some way each year, "for transgressions against G-d, the Day of Atonement atones. For transgressions between people, the Day of Atonement does *not* atone, until they have made peace with one another."

I do not ask a blanket forgiveness here. I do ask that if there is something between us, consider contacting me, as I generally try to be kind, and I may not know I have caused harm. *

Another thing I have written about in past years is Kintsugi, the Japanese art of repairing pottery with precious metals, as a metaphor for repairing relationships. The break remains. The rebuilt object has greater beauty in the repair.

Kol Nidre outdoors at Adas was lovely, and I have no idea why Hashkivenu brought tears. Perhaps simply being part of so many singing together.
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* I *am* aware I've been sharper and less patient in this year, and that's something I will try to temper. As is hopefully obvious, the world is currently very difficult.

Further to the footnote, I noted that bag check and magnetometer on the way in is completely and sadly appropriate for that service. Adas is huge. 1500, maybe more, in the service in tent in the parking lot, and same again indoors in the more traditional service. (I just went to look for the link to the service, but it looks like the outdoor service wasn't livestreamed. Pity - what I love about it is that it feels like A Revival. At one point I forget what song was melded with Let It Be. I'd made a mental note to find something half an hour in. A comment from the rabbi that I thought worth remembering, but since I thought I'd be able to find it . . . all has dissipated.

It's honestly a bit nervewracking to make that post on Facebook. There's all manner of people I no longer trust.

Much as i'm feeling like writing more I feel like it doesn't belong in this post. And it's half past midnight and I *do* want to get to Agudas in the morning.

In terms of hey you're on line . . . well, see this opening Types of Jews on Yom Kippur

(I probably wouldn't have gotten on line but the ten days went by entirely too fast and I haven't missed a year since I started and I don't want to do so now.)
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Sep. 19th, 2026 21:34

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Today I went to the Lowell Kinetic Sculpture Race!

This was something Austin and I discovered last summer, and which I rather enjoyed last year. I almost missed it, and feel very grateful that Thrantar pinged me the other week to be like "you planning to go?" and very sad that he couldn't actually get the time off work to join me. But I dragged Tuesday and Alexander with me onto the train1 and then we found a Lucretia and Evan and Daniel (F.) and slightly later an Anna.

Because of my train timing mishap, I very virtuously (sigh) sat at the table for our spare hour at home2 and did a bunch of the necessary grading for this weekend, which I honestly do not actually expect myself to get done because I have a _Tuesday_ in town and I love her dearly and want to spend all my free time snuggling kem instead of doing boring work things.

This was an extremely annoying hour, because it actually worked, I finished grading all the MiniQuizzen and Lesson Synthesis assignments, so 2/4 things that needed grading. Then on the train I graded the front page of all the homeworks. I had more time but I did not have more grading brain, and this is an important lesson for me to note, that there is a finite amount of mass grading I can handle before I just get _sad_ about the state of everything. If the children are doing poorly, it is my fault and depressing! I do not like that!

ANYways, after I did some grading and a little knitting, we were in Lowell! Timing was tight enough that we didn't bother heading to the opening ceremonies, and instead the three of us sauntered directly to the mudpit, along the race route. We'd gotten about halfway there when we started to be passed by sculptures and began our initial discussion of what seemed most good. I was extremely fond of the theming of Laika and Godzilla, and pleased to see the return of Moose, who I recall enjoying last year.

We made the mudpit in plenty of time, and sat down across-ish from the announcer and ASL interpreter --not close enough to watch him well all the time (and photographers and stuff would pass in front of him sometimes) but a good thing to try and look at occasionally and see if I can Learn Stuff as I do. Last year I had not as carefully tracked the competitors, so this year I made a point of getting photos of every sculpture team as they squelched their way through. I haven't had a chance to really look through and see which photos turned out best, but we all fell very in love with Treadward the Mud Skipper, who managed to get through by sheer force of will, with about seven seconds remaining on the clock.

There were fifteen teams headed through the mud, and it was delightful to see them charge through and/or fall apart. We sauntered off the stands and met up with the Pinewoods gremlins, and collectively sauntered off to the water to see the next significant part of the race. I'm glad we didn't try to take the shuttles --the lines were VERY long and it was probably supremely crowded-- but I did very much miss having bikes like my crew did last year. It is simply the superior way to see the show, even if it's much more of a pain in the ass to bring on the commuter rail.

The weather was extremely splendid, and we spent a lot of time dawdling as we walked along the extremely pretty merrimack river and contemplated going rock-hopping. Somehow, none of the gremlin votes won, and we stayed safe and dry at street level. But we made it to the end of the river a bit before the first sculptures did, and had a jolly time sitting in the grass and sharing out ice cream and other snacks.

I didn't shout myself hoarse, but I did demand that Jandro help me tie my MD flag mask around my arm as a patch when I saw a sculpture that had missed the mud, and was themed after the B'more skyline. What a delight it was, to get that taste of childhood home! (there were lots of these, honestly, Baltimore also has a kinetic sculpture race and I want very badly to go down some year and see. Probably not this one, though, I'm told it's typically first Saturday in May, and this year that means May Day.)

After, we sauntered back to the finish line, well after most of the competitors. But that was good, it meant we could do a slow dawdle up and down the line of sculptures and examine them closely. I wound up mostly with Lucretia for this, other people were watching the band, which was nice and all, but scullllptures!

We did make it back in time for some jolly good funky dancing though! And after, when the crowd had made it into the little cool bookshop, a guy specifically signaled me out to be like "you were bustin' a groove out there you looked great!" which felt very nice. I do so like dancing!

Sticking around for the award ceremony turned out to be...fine I guess? It was late and everyone was wilty, and maybe next year it is just correct to get the earlier train. Useful data! But we found a Tasty Dumpling restaurant, which both lived up to its name and was _swamped_. We felt so bad for the poor woman who seemed to be running things and really was RUNNING them --she didn't seem to get off her feet at any point, and seemed to be actively upset when she told us we'd have to wait a half hour for our food. It was okay though, it was nice to sit together and tell bad jokes and talk about school and other lovely things.

And once we had dumplings, we walked back to the train station and ate them in a little copse of trees just outside. The food from Tasty Dumpling absolutely lived up to its name, and also the dumplings are HUGE. I was very satisfied! And we finished eating in just the right amount of time to go get our train (read: I was Extremely Stressed trying to powerwalk to the station and Tuesday was walking at a completely normal pace and struggled not at all with getting there on time). Home again home again meant more knitting and goofy conversation, and now I am writing words while Tuesday snoozes against my arm a little. It's very nice!

Tomorrow will be a MUCH quieter day, whatever winds up happening. Probably I will do more grading while Tues does some Mystery Hunt work, but also we will snuggle and watch and/or play things and maybe even ~kiss~ a little. I might make it to demo team, but I also might not, we'll see3. Hopefully I will continue to live happily ever after or whatever. I hope you do too!

~Sor
MOOP!

1: er, the slightly later train than originally planned, since some dumbass doesn't actually remember that the mbta has different schedules for weekdays and Saturdays, so if you're looking up an event that's happening on the latter, you can't do it on the former.

2: Seriously, I did not bother to double check the train timing until like, a few minutes before we were due to leave, at which point I learned we had to get a train a full hour later than expected, deeply embarrassing

3: I am not actually performing in the next demo team event, for Stupid Reasons About Sticking To My Principles, which is. Annoying, given that I was excited to actually decide to do it this season and then find out I can't. But it does mean I'm rather less serious about getting to every practice.
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There are so many things going wrong, including the threats to demolish the Kennedy Center, which is why I will be out there this evening. Hands around the Kennedy Center is at 6:30.

I don't think I'm going to be trying to also get to Memorial Circle first to join the twice daily vigil because that's going to be a whole lot of walking, and another thing that's going wrong is weirdness around my foot and ankle still.

Although another thing that did go right was earlier this week I got a cancellation into PT instead of having to wait until october.

Anyway, what went right today? Well a couple days ago I checked my mail because I realized that my temporary print out for my car registration was expiring and I discovered my mailbox was empty with no note in it saying that the postal worker had taken it back to the post office (which she really should be doing) and then I stopped at the post office and picked up mail but my registration wasn't in it but what was in it was a note from an insurance company saying we got to Return to Sender except our research says you still live here

Which meant it was possible I was going to have to reprove residency with DMV

I called yesterday and fortunately they had not gotten the registration back in the mail, which means perhaps it's like what happened a couple years ago where it was delivered to the wrong apartment and somebody got their mail like a month later and dropped it off at the gatehouse.

Yesterday David was over and drove me over to the post office and I made the mistake of not double checking when it closed and also of letting him ask a Google how to get there instead of just directing him from the passenger seat. Much as Google keeps insisting that DMV is open on Mondays and it is not it tried to take us somehow to the inspection center and I got there at 401 p.m. which did not work.

So I called again today just to make sure they still had not gotten a Return to Sender. And the guy on the phone said I would be given another temporary print out.

And I biked over and when I checked in I told them and showed them my temporary print out and to my surprise was not told okay here's a number and wait around a long time and then go deal with the people at the counter, but instead okay leave the print out with us and go sit where we can see you and probably only 5 minutes later she came back out and found me and handed me a shiny sticker for my window!

So when the guy directing people on the parking lot asked how things were going I said I was delighted and told him and we fist bumped about yes my day was going well for a change :-)
Sep. 18th, 2026 05:39

Technical difficulites [me, tech]

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Yall, I am so tired.

I had cleared Tuesday to write, and discovered when I settled in to do so that I had lost the entirety of the post I was working on. It's just gone. I have very little idea what happened. I write post drafts in my email system because it both autosaves and has a robust versioning system I configured precisely to prevent data loss. I guess there is something that's become flakey in my email system, because the draft file apparently got clobbered by another draft file (i.e. of another document), which is something that should not be possible. This system autonumbers new drafts, and for some reason, it seems it reused the number of an extant draft when I started a new file and overwrote the extant file. Either that, or the extant draft was deleted for some reason, and that's why the number was free. In any event, I didn't notice in time, and the backup file is a backup of the new file.

This is not the first time this has happened, but the first time I have it dead to rights it wasn't just that I failed to save the file to disk (and thus reserve the number): as it happened, I had the old file open in an emacs buffer in an SSH session which timed out, so I have one screenful of the text frozen at the moment of the disconnection – and at the bottom, in the emacs mini-buffer, the confirmation from the auto-save system that it was saved. It also confirms that the draft I was working on was 2766. And 2766 is the file containing the draft of an entirely other email.

I was looking forward to getting that post out the door, and this just sandbagged me. For months, I have had one problem after another disrupting my ability or opportunity to write: medical appointments sucking up time; sleep disruptions of various kinds leaving me with too-impaired concentration; random high-urgency interrupts like an adventure with the neighbor's malfunctioning smoke detector. I had finally gotten something that was coming together. It was about six hours work I'd lost – 76 paragraphs according to the emacs minibuffer. I was just utterly demoralized; I'm a bit better now, but given that I don't know if my work is going to disappear, I am still feeling paralized about trying to do any substantive writing.




I used to have a proper remote backup system – in addition to the draft and autosave system – which would have probably been proof against this, but it's been down since the drive died, some years ago. I didn't have the wherewithal to fix it, and then my back problems started, which prohibited doing much with hardware.

Like I said, this is not the first time I suspected I have lost drafts in progress. That is not the only problem with this email system. When I moved hosting companies somewhat precipitously in Jan 2024, I didn't manage to get the whole thing fully up and running, and there are still parts of it not working right (mostly about mail delivery to me, not the reverse, but also I never got around to plugging Spamassassin in).

I kind of feel I am drowning in technical debt. In addition to my defunct backup system and my not-wholly-migrated email system (which may be randomly deleting drafts or failing to count correctly), I have recoursed to doing my business bookkeeping in spreadsheets, because I haven't found a remotely acceptable replacement for the system I was using on my Palm Pilot. Even if I could tolerate the state of most bookkeeping software, a lot of it is now In the Cloud which I'm less than thrilled with. Also, I think if I use a SaaS platform, I will need a HIPAA compatible one, bc medical.

Relatedly, I realized with the recent Proton outage, I need a backup solution for Proton. I don't even know where to start with that. I have two Proton accounts, one professional and one personal. Part of why I decided to put my confidential data in Proton is precisely to get it out of the US, which means backing it up to a local device here in the US... kinda defeats that. On the flip side, what if something happens to the internet such that I can't get to my bytes in Switzerland?

I looked, in a cursory way, into options for backing up my cloud assets to some form of encrypted volume or device on a NAS in my home. This, in turn, brings up the eternal question of, "No, really, how do you do encrypted backups without doing the equivalent of leaving the key in the file cabinet lock all the time."

This is the wrong historical moment to be buying hard drives. They have gotten eyewateringly expensive.
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Actually me, shopping for dog backpacks: these are nice but where is the pillow. my dog needs a head rest

In mostly unrelated news, I took Daphne to the vet because I was worried about her eye. Her right eye. I KNOW. Fortunately she was diagnosed with seasonal allergies and we'll try OTC anti-histamine eye drops for itchy watery eyes. (I was like, "Can I use them?" and the vet was like, "Sure, I do.")

Also it is now officially heated bed season. I plugged in the one on the top level of her cat tree and replaced the cooling blankets on the sofa with heated snugglers. She's sleeping in one of them right now.

September feels cooler than usual this year. I had to check my journal for "dramatic plant that thinks 50F is a killing frost," and it was definitely the scheffleras, but it looks like it's only a problem for baby leaves. The mature growth seems fine, and my neighbor's 30+ year old tree has stayed out to 30F with a frost blanket.

Hopefully another month or so before we have to roll that one inside.
Sep. 15th, 2026 19:54

Ladies Bingo 2026-2027

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The motivation behind the community is to encourage people to make creative works focused on female characters and their relationships.

Round 14 (2026-2027) is now open.
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I'm interested in doing more "zoomed-out" posts, but in the meantime here's another week:


  • Paperwork victory for the India trip, getting my "tourist visa" granted. I had to give them my religion (very much "OTHER", out of the list they offered) along with every country I'd travelled to in the last ten years... yipes.

  • Painting radiator covers for our tenants, whose baby is starting to toddle around on his own. I started listening to The Deluge, a 40-hour audiobook about climate change, and it was peaceful; did three coats on three days; and then we installed the covers on Saturday.

  • The NYT games department re-opened for crossword submissions, and I dumped four new collabs (with four different people) into the queue. I'm proud of them; they include my first-ever Sunday. Now I'm working on my first-ever rebus puzzle, with a guy who's kind of a legendary constructor, and it's quite an education.

  • Saw a circus show with a videogame focus. The cutest act was an aerial one with two Yarnies joined together a la Unraveled Two.

  • Went ziplining on Sunday with Birdie, ironically on my wedding anniversary with [personal profile] heisenbug -- that, itself, is getting celebrated next weekend because nice restaurants aren't open on Sundays. Some of our fellow zipliners asked if we were sisters and we laughed and I said "no, mother and daughter". So on the way back we had a brief conversation about generally using the words "mother" and "daughter" with fewer differentiating words added on, even when not essentially cosplaying for strangers, and I said I was fine with that. And yeah, it does feel fine, to my slight surprise. I still don't feel generally like a mother since that's so often associated with having taken care of younger kids, but being this kind of "lightweight mom to an adult", which is to say being her mother, seems okay. If she has a kid in a few years then I might seriously regret this, as my squirrel will never shut up about my being a "hot grandma" -- I mean there have already been discussions about how if he buys me a rocking chair he will be bludgeoned with the pieces of it, and in short order! But for now... okay.



Sometimes a really good individual day coalesces out of the glop. On Tuesday I said, elsewhere: I got to see my friend's beehives, finished clues for two crossword puzzles with two different collaborators, put primer on three radiator covers I'm painting, took a juggling class, gave my other friend a stack of books, and cooked a new recipe. 🥰 Oh and I ran into my bio-kid at the bus stop, which is always fun. Yeah. That felt good.

I forgot to post this last night after a long day of taking care of details, and two cool things happened while I was forgetting! One of them is going to be of interest and will get its own friends-only post, the other is that I did good straddle-ups onto canes. Yes, using a very remedial setup of a minitramp on one side and a crash mat on the other BUT STILL.
Sep. 15th, 2026 10:21

Shanna Tova!

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Happy new year for those who celebrate it. Happy back to school for those who that impacts. And if you don't fall into those categories, I hope you're happy anyhow. :-)

JD is in Madrid, I'm still alive, and I don't have time for now right now.

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