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I'm selling a Sun D1000 RAID, and posted it on craigslist. One of the people who responded wanted to come take a look at it today, and suggested he might be able to stop by Cambridge on his way home from work. The following email exchange ensued, presented mostly without comment (his emails in italics):
    Anyway my schedule indicates I have time to see the D1000 after 5:30 PM.

    Okay, sounds good. It turns out I will be home until about 7pm today,
    so if you come here after 5:30 that should work.

    I'll come have a look at the array at 7:00 PM. [...] I'll see you at 7:00 PM.

    I may be heading out at 7, will you get here right at 7 or a little before?

    do you get out of work earlier any other day? I prefer around 5:30 because at 7:00 PM is dinner time for me. do expect to get out of work earlier any other day of this week?

    I don't have a 9-5 office job. Like I said earlier, "I will be home until about 7pm today, so if you come here after 5:30 that should work."

    okay, I'll come around that time. I'll call when I am at Hampshire st. see you later.
At that point, it was 5:20pm, and I figured he was about to leave work, so I went and did other things. When do you expect he called?

Yup. 7:15pm.

I responded with, "I'm sorry, I said I'd be home until 7pm and then I'm leaving", and he apologized for having misunderstood my emails.

P.S. My new favorite fortune cookie message, received tonight at Mary Chung:
"You Are Not Illiterate"
From: [identity profile] sexykneesocks.livejournal.com
perhaps saying something like the following would be easier for him to understand.

"great, i will see you at 5:30 to look at the array."

short, sweet, and if he doesn't like the specific time you've provided, he will re-negotiate.

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IMO, clearly he is living life through his planner. those i know stuck in the purgatory of outlook scheduling in corporate infernos generally need to be fed small pieces of information and given tasks in pieces... i find that when dealing with those who are perpetually over-committed, even if i have a dozen things i need to ask ... i only ask one per email/interaction. also, i don't run the questions in parallel, i never seem to get them answered unless in serial. this is vastly inefficient, however, less frustrating.

i think that in your email to him, you gave him too much to parse, so he took the last piece, combined it with his blighted worldview which must include an 8-6 job and a hellish commute... because last time i checked nobody who had a 9-5 job actually worked 9-5...
Date: 2006-02-28 11:24 (UTC)

there's a saying...

From: [identity profile] sexykneesocks.livejournal.com
those who can't make it professionally, teach.

?

i am not 100% in agreement with such a saying, however here, it leaps to mind.

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